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THE TRUE MEANINGS OF "SANCTUARY" AND "SACRED": Making the local church safe and secure for all. By Dayl Hufford, D.Min. |
sanc - tu - ar - y (sangk?chú - er? i), n., pl. -ar - ies. 1. a sacred place. 2. part of a church around the altar. 3. a place of refuge or protection.
sa - cred (sa?krid), adj. 1. belonging to God; holy. 2. connected with religion. 3. worthy of reverence. 4. that must not be violated.
These two words are basic parts of our daily language used regularly to describe the places of worship, the instruments of worship, and the rituals of worship. In this article I to challenge you to consider the question, "How do these two words describe your church's understanding and regard for the people who worship in your church?" Today's churches and their leadership are careful stewards of material sacred objects. Communion silver is kept safely stored in safe deposit boxes. The sanctuary is kept locked to protect paraments and candelabra. The church office has restricted access to guard the computer and copy machine. There is, however, an alarming neglect of one of the congregation's greatest treasures: the persons, young and old, who come to participate in the mission and ministry of the church. The church stands uniquely and embarrassingly alone in the community with its low standards and priorities for safety, security, and protection. Ponder the following:
These are just a few of the unique dynamics of the church environment that leave precious assets and innocent people unnecessarily vulnerable to loss and abuse. The American Bar Association is actively providing training throughout the country to train lawyers to successfully sue churches. Churches historically have established and demonstrated the very highest community standards for ethical and moral environments of safety, security and sanctuary. Yet today the church is being scrutinized by and being held to a legal and insurance level of responsibility and accountability never before experienced by denominations and local congregations. The complexities of laws and insurance liabilities impact on all areas of the ministries and missions of the local church. Ignorance is neither defense for protection against potential litigation.
Look again at the definitions of "sanctuary" and "sacred." Congregations have been remiss in applying these definitions only to "the big room where we worship communally." The church is challenged to thoughtfully reflect on the theological, spiritual, and emotional depths of these two words. When a congregation has the courage and resources to look deeply and seriously at how it regards all persons, as well as property, as sacred, and how "sanctuary" is more than a room, the most profound experiences of the church as an expression of the teachings of Jesus are possible. For only then can persons safely allow themselves to be truly vulnerable to the spiritual quest for and response to God's loving Word. For too long church leaders have hidden their heads in the sands of
Sadly, one of the ways I express my ministry is by consulting to churches when they have had difficulties. I also serve as an expert witness in matters concerning professional misconduct and fiduciary duties of churches. Every week I meet with churches, pastors, lay leadership, and denominational judicatories who are facing the reality of the great costs of believing the statements above. The costs are far dearer than just financial. The real tragic expenses of this kind of ignorance are the trust, faith, security, sanctuary, and sacredness of those individuals and congregations who have been harmed. Failure to be educated and informed about these matters amounts to neglect of our sacred trusts and responsibilities. Every congregation, individual, pastor, leader, or denominational official that I consult with expresses it this way: "If only I/we had known before what we have had to learn the hard way. Then this never would have happened. I/we would give anything to be able to turn back the clock and do things right."
Some of the problem lies in the fact that pastors, denominational officials, and lay leadership do not have the resources available to provide themselves with the learning and experience necessary to prevent tragedies. Neither traditional seminary training nor leadership orientation has offered training in the following important areas of providing "Sanctuary and Sacredness" in the local church:
Recognizing the need for these resources, Andover Newton Theological School and the New England Pastoral Institute, Inc. provide a yearly conference that brings together experts from all around the nation on the legal, practical, and theological dimensions of these topics. The next Conference will be April 28-29, 2001 at Andover Newton. This offering is recognized by most denominations and church insurers as the leader in presenting timely and accurate legal information in the light of thoughtful theological reflection. For a brochure, more information, or to register for the conference, contact the
New England Pastoral Institute, Inc.
130 Main Street - Suite #204- Salem, New Hampshire 03079-3173
(603) 890-6767 or their website: www.nepastoral.org
| Rev. Dr, Dayl Hufford is an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ, a Licensed Pastoral Psychotherapist and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She is a member of the adjunct faculty of Andover Newton Theological School. Dr. Hufford serves as Clinical Director of the New England Pastoral Institute and the United Pastoral Counseling Centers. |